tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.comments2015-11-22T15:21:21.752-05:00Not Just Mrs DoctorNot Just Mrs Doctorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04477641827480786773noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-49388712997446375692015-11-22T15:21:21.752-05:002015-11-22T15:21:21.752-05:00eka, herbal is a must take by any woman trying to...eka, herbal is a must take by any woman trying to get pregnant. I was devastated and so was my husband after being told by my fertility specialist at age 38 that I had no option but to consider adoption or donor eggs (according to my doctor I was out of eggs and gave me 4% chance of getting pregnant and a 2% chance of carrying a baby to full term). After much research and dozens of hours reading infertility related articles and posts online, I have found your email (dreka14demons@gmail.com)! I never believed in anything alternative to western medicine and thought all the other stuff like Chinese medicine was a hoax. But I was soon glad to be wrong as I followed your the guidelines given to me as soon as you cast on me pregnancy spell and send to me your natural herbals. After one month of trying I became pregnant and had a beautiful healthy boy. Nine months after that I did everything you told me again and after 2 months of trying I got pregnant again and gave birth to another perfect little boy. I would recommend anyone with an open mind to contact eka on (dreka14demons@gmail.com). It just might be the answer to your prayers. Thank you for everything you have done for me, EKA!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-37548236592025537812015-11-22T15:19:09.118-05:002015-11-22T15:19:09.118-05:00I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was 19 years old....I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was 19 years old. My husband and I was TTC for almost 9 months with no luck.<br />After continuing to try without any success, we began clomid treatments. The Clomid making me sick to my stomach.<br />After 4 rounds, we did not get pregnant. And then I contacted Eka kingdom to cast pregnancy spell on me to Get Pregnant because the clomid and the other fertility drugs didn't worked on me.<br />After 3 months of his spell casting I can't believe that I got positive result. I'm PREGNANT! We are more than our physical bodies, treating yourself holistically by contacting Eka on (dreka14demons@gmail.com) you will surely Get Pregnant and there is going to greatly improvement in your chances of healing and conceiving, so you can move toward a successful, healthy pregnancy.<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-37692019670847598792012-04-09T15:49:13.262-04:002012-04-09T15:49:13.262-04:00I wrote the comments on your previous things that ...I wrote the comments on your previous things that suck about miscarriages , I vary between sadness and this... Also Im OB nurse in the States and I have discovered that teenagers that come in pregnant and indifferent, infuriate me lately.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-29159309766133578822012-04-09T15:38:42.044-04:002012-04-09T15:38:42.044-04:00Wow. I somehow stumbled upon this blog, as if it w...Wow. I somehow stumbled upon this blog, as if it were ment for me, I recently suffered two miscarriages one in Nov at 5 weeks and one in Feb at 10wks . What you wrotes here describes my exact sentiments . I am currently married to the love of my life my high school sweetheart who i had a 4 year split with and managed to get pregnant by someone else, now that we are reunited and i know that my life has and always will be ment to be spent with him i wanted a family to maifest these indescribable feeling of love. And his first two children ( or would be children, i miscarried.)The part of never feeling adequate hit the nail on the head writing my pregnancies down as 3 and only 1 live birth, on not being sure if I could risk experiencing the heartbreak that losing my babies has brought all over again by getting pregnant again. Seeing my son with his step dad and seeing what a wonderful father he is and yet somehow I feel like I robbed him of experiencing what it is like to hold a newborn in your arms or a toddler at arms length. Not knowing how long is it ok to feelso sad when people seem to think I should be over it by now and just be happy I have my son, and lastly I feel alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-50691617972596765512010-10-08T00:15:25.026-04:002010-10-08T00:15:25.026-04:00great to have you back in blog land. aksel is a tr...great to have you back in blog land. aksel is a trooper and also very adorable. wish i could give him a cuddle!Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674053319325984314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-90349369866473372772010-10-03T21:32:07.179-04:002010-10-03T21:32:07.179-04:00wow! Brenda - wow wow wow! I am so sorry that you ...wow! Brenda - wow wow wow! I am so sorry that you had to go through that. Your little man is a trooper eh! :) - I'm so glad that he is doing so well. He's absolutely gorgeous. take care! lots of love. AuramarinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-42324996372605000892010-05-25T12:58:39.080-04:002010-05-25T12:58:39.080-04:00waiting here too and feel for you with this last s...waiting here too and feel for you with this last stretch... always so fun in the heat! as for your reading of the regular practice of some doctors... i had a substitute doc at one appointment in my first pregnancy and that is exactly what he did! no warning, no gearing up... i just had it explained as he did it. not a nice experience!Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674053319325984314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-61769766126429769392010-05-24T23:48:38.784-04:002010-05-24T23:48:38.784-04:00I've been thinking of you so much these days (...I've been thinking of you so much these days (I know - that helps a lot doesn't it =)<br /><br />Keep me posted, and I hope all goes well for you!<br /><br />Lots of love to you, Anja, Kirk and the babe<3<br />~C~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-14165899627033798002010-05-02T19:31:28.636-04:002010-05-02T19:31:28.636-04:00Luckily not many major hills in Ottawa - we did bu...Luckily not many major hills in Ottawa - we did buy not just a double chariot but a double CXT for all the skiing we are going to do in Winter when Kirk is off. I like the ventilation better and the handbrake. <br /><br />I had three stretch and sweeps with Anja - the third week was the charm. It sucks, but what sucks more is that this baby already measure around 7 pounds and gains a pound and a half a week and that it is oddly humid here and I have elephant legs. Sigh. Weep. Moan :)Not Just Mrs Doctorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04477641827480786773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-74784834975476197802010-04-29T15:32:31.156-04:002010-04-29T15:32:31.156-04:00i almost didn't read that post since the title...i almost didn't read that post since the title started the same! i can't believe you're possibly only two weeks from baby! exciting. :)Your dog adventures are very entertaining...sorry you have to deal with it all though. Has alice resurfaced? <br />And did you buy the double chariot? or are you still considering it? we love ours... with two in there now that they're both relatively large, it is pretty heavy for doing any real length of runs or runs with hills. the stroller itself is about 30lbs and then with 60lbs of kid in there it makes hills a bit much. but i do use it pretty much every day. :)<br />i had the not-so-lovely stretch and sweep before david was born (when he was about a week overdue) and it was very uncomfortable and unfortunately did not successfully induce labour for me. i wish you better luck with it! i'll have to call for a chat before you go. miss you!Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674053319325984314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-25850300229545545272010-04-04T23:59:34.308-04:002010-04-04T23:59:34.308-04:00How is it that you seem to post exactly what I am ...How is it that you seem to post exactly what I am thinking? There is one difference at the moment, though. You wake up wanting to engage. I wake up wanting it to be bed time (for me, and the kids). How did we get here? Did we actually choose this (I know the answer for both of us!) And why, exactly, is it ok for daddy to sleep through the night, but not mommy? And yes, I too try to be grateful - and I am - for all that I have. But. There's always a but. Anyways, my time to sleep is approaching and since I know it will end far too soon I guess I should go. One day we'll get to that beach and those drinks. Yup, one day. Oh, and in case it wasn't obvious, this is your sis in law!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-85133479839411419942010-03-28T09:30:26.554-04:002010-03-28T09:30:26.554-04:00Thank you all - all mothers I know who try to be t...Thank you all - all mothers I know who try to be the very best mothers possible. It IS nice to know I'm not alone, and that suddenly preschoolers become "entitled." The birthday week has been a huge struggle for that - today I just could not face going to church with them and listening to more whining, so am staying home doing laundry and going for a nice long walk with the dog. I am so glad to know I am not a freakish monster.Not Just Mrs Doctorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04477641827480786773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-10630261104264994202010-03-28T02:51:30.588-04:002010-03-28T02:51:30.588-04:00Brenda thanks so much for posting. I sit here wit...Brenda thanks so much for posting. I sit here with tears in my eyes realizing that I'm not the only one who is struggling with a preschooler. IT's harder than I ever imagined. The baby is a snap compared to him, if that's any consolation. Hang in there, keep writing, be kind to yourself. you are loved. Sometimes I wonder what happened to my sweet little boy and who left this terrible brat in his place, and my heart breaks for wanting my sweet boy back. But I pray... maybe for a different set of eyes with which to view this, or some thunderbolt of parenting skill to hit me! :) <br /><br />hugs hugs hugs, it's harder with preggo hormones, I KNOW. <br /><br />Ryan wants a "blueberry cake" for his birthday, and I'm refusing to make any cupcakes! LOL.<br /><br />xoxo kimKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13505876528053521773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-15063736961369608022010-03-25T02:49:29.944-04:002010-03-25T02:49:29.944-04:00I can't believe there are many mothers who hav...I can't believe there are many mothers who haven't been there at least at some point. It is 'the' most intense relationship you will ever have in both a good way - love - and the not-so-good way . . . <br /><br />It's easy to try and compare yourself to Kirk, but think of the percentage of time you are with Anja, and of that how much do you remain calm? With Kirk's hours away, he has far fewer opportunities to 'lose it', and kids always seem to listen better to the ones that aren't 'always' having to tell them what to do. It's a completely different dynamic. <br /><br />I understand about wishing you could find a way to stop the rage before it hits - counting to ten, etc. - but somehow in that moment all seems lost. The little voice in the back of your head that says 'stay calm' somehow gets drowned out.<br /><br />It's not easy, and no, you are not alone. <br />Love you,<br />~C~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-15537435714437382622010-03-25T01:23:08.725-04:002010-03-25T01:23:08.725-04:00sigh... been there too. more than i like to admit....sigh... been there too. more than i like to admit. it is amazing how motherhood can really hold a mirror to some parts of ourselves we'd rather not have to look at very often! you are not a bad mother! i am not a bad mother. we do have bad days and everyone does. (i must assume anyway). wish i could be there to take you out for a decaf coffee somewhere nice. tomorrow will be a better day.Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674053319325984314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-31394366168668781272010-03-25T00:04:41.267-04:002010-03-25T00:04:41.267-04:00Soooooooo been there. So glad to hear I'm not...Soooooooo been there. So glad to hear I'm not the only bad mommy. And I can't even blame it on pregnancy (a fact for which I must admit I am grateful!) Every mom that I have talked to about this assures me that I am not the worst human and earth. They also reassure me that "mom's always get the worst", which explains why Kirk and Chris can stay calm: they never see what you and I see. Sigh. <br />So I guess I'll tell you what all the other mom's tell me (though I'm not totally sure I believe them): You are most definitely NOT a terrible awful mommy. You get the worst of the worst because Anja knows you are a "soft place to fall" and will love her forever no matter what. In a roundabout way it's a compliment. <br />Admittedly, it's a compliment I wouldn't mind getting less often. <br />As usual, thanks for sharing and making me feel less alone!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-79171021423437101802010-03-24T19:38:36.119-04:002010-03-24T19:38:36.119-04:00Thank you Kim - sadly, after today's episodes ...Thank you Kim - sadly, after today's episodes of mutual screaming, I am afraid I am much less than spectacular.....At what point can you and I leave children with brothers and go somewhere they serve drinks with umbrellas?Not Just Mrs Doctorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04477641827480786773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-42160718442641016312010-03-18T23:33:00.000-04:002010-03-18T23:33:00.000-04:00You are gloriously, wondrously spectacular and I l...You are gloriously, wondrously spectacular and I love that we're family(but family without "you have to spend time with me" and "why can't you....." requirements!) Kim :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-27431338736341589112010-03-04T22:34:07.328-05:002010-03-04T22:34:07.328-05:00i love reading your posts. as usual, today's p...i love reading your posts. as usual, today's post made me wish we were still closer and could hang out. <br /><br />you should definitely make dinnerware! i didn't realize you were such a pottery whiz! <br /><br />love it that you watch brothers and sisters... i watch it too as a good guilty pleasure and enjoy it thoroughly. :) <br /><br />you are good and you are a fun person! (just a reminder from an old friend who has lots of memories of fun and spontaneous days)<br /><br />love megMeganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674053319325984314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-69138465691442744712010-02-08T00:01:11.053-05:002010-02-08T00:01:11.053-05:00=) Can't wait to see a photo!
~C~
(Indie is a...=) Can't wait to see a photo!<br />~C~<br />(Indie is a beautiful name)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-87456955162455749642010-01-29T18:18:56.390-05:002010-01-29T18:18:56.390-05:00congratulations on your growing little boy!!
bein...congratulations on your growing little boy!!<br /><br />being the mother of two boys i can definitely assure you that it is lots of fun and you will do great! i don't know about the differences since we haven't got a little girl, but i agree with kim that the pee pee tee pee seems ridiculous and probably not necessary. i never had one for either boy and seem to have survived relatively unscathed in the pee department. ;)<br /><br />i also can't imagine one day being the mother-in-law and hope i can be a good one so that my daughters in law will allow me to be part of the fun things like weddings and babies etc if there are such things! (and you know i whole-heartedly agree with you about the munsch book!! CREEPY)<br /><br />i'm sure you will find lots of things to enjoy about being a mother to a boy... and some things you may not enjoy... as with any child i'm sure. potty training does seem longer in general, but there are always exceptions and maybe your son will surprise you and be a quick learner because he'll want to be just like his big sister! <br /><br />one of each will be great!<br /><br />anyway, i am so happy for you and must have a real chat soon. maybe sunday? <br /><br />lots of love<br />megMeganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674053319325984314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-61013925426304995252010-01-26T23:24:45.486-05:002010-01-26T23:24:45.486-05:00CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I am so excited for you all! ...CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I am so excited for you all! Yes, a boy is different, but not all in a bad way. I actually am finding more cute "boy" clothes now than girl clothes (not that I could find cute stuff when Tyson was little) As for the pee pee tee pee - they don't work. Really all that happens is that the pee shoots the tee pee up in the air. For what it's worth, Tyson only got me once; you'll learn quickly to "point down" (and yes, little boys are vastly different to men in this area...)<br />As for everything else - we'll get through it together - since we both have one of each we can share, compare and bitch about all the stages. <br />Congratulations again, mommy!<br />(oh, and just because I don't comment on every post - I'm trying to limit myself - doesn't mean I don't think about you every day, and check here, with bated breath, to see if you have new wisdom and insight!!)<br />Kim :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-17355329813381407672010-01-23T19:17:35.957-05:002010-01-23T19:17:35.957-05:00thank you - environmental guilt mixed with utter f...thank you - environmental guilt mixed with utter fear for the future..... good point, though!Not Just Mrs Doctorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04477641827480786773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-18409725767778345092010-01-19T23:20:47.695-05:002010-01-19T23:20:47.695-05:00I'll think of more later I'm sure (because...I'll think of more later I'm sure (because I 'should' be working on my business plan right now - guilt!), but I think that time is one of the main causes of guilty feelings - spending time on one thing when you 'feel' like you should be spending it another way. <br /><br />Classes, writing, work, cooking (healthy meals of course!), child(ren), husband, housework, oh, and yourself once in a while - we are constantly feeling pulled from one thing to the next. But still, heaven forbid we sit and do nothing for a change - even though sometimes that nothing means everything.<br /><br />Motherhood is definitely a category of guilt all of it's own, with time being on small component in the mothering machine between the issues you mentioned already, among so many others. And EVERYONE has an opinion on what/how you 'should' be doing things.<br /><br />I also deal with a great deal of environmental guilt. I compost, and recycle everything in my path. I buy natural cleaners/body care products, tonnes of organic groceries. I leave as much power off as possible and don't even heat the family room after the kids have gone to sleep - yet I still feel guilty if I throw something away once or twice, no matter how insanely small (we're talking the plastic tag from a bread bag small), if I knew it didn't need to go in the trash.<br /><br />It's a great topic you have opened up and it would be great to hear from others as well. Thanks for being insightful and thought provoking! Now, back to my business plan . . . . (after reading a few more blogs??)<br /><br />~C~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5370740108341131720.post-22696979384644010382010-01-08T20:28:40.390-05:002010-01-08T20:28:40.390-05:00again with a sigh. i miss you. i miss regular talk...again with a sigh. i miss you. i miss regular talks with someone i can relate to on this level. i too am looking for my room... maybe you can inspire me to find it this year! must talk to you soon. hope you're well!Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674053319325984314noreply@blogger.com